When
are people going to learn that animals are not a convenience item?
They are a long term commitment. Some people seem to think they can
acquire animals and keep them until its no longer fun for them, or
the weather isn't warm enough, and they don't want to go out in the
cold to feed them, or all of the sudden they realize that they can't
afford to the feed it takes to properly care for the animals. Do they
think maybe they should have done some research BEFORE getting those
animals, and made sure they have the means and resources to care for
them throughout the year? No, they didn't, because they just figure that when its
no longer 'fun' for them, they can just get someone else to take care
those animals..... and in the spring they'll either decide to go get
the animal from that person who has been taking care of them all
winter or buy new animals.... and the cycle starts all over again!
I
warned you that this was going to be a rant. And its something I
should probably keep to myself. But wheres the fun in that? [laughing
to myself] I guess I just need to get this out there, because I can't
be the only one who has experienced this. Or maybe I am the only
gullible one who gets myself into these situations, I don't know.
Here
is a bit of a background story to help you understand why I'm upset
today...... A few years back I had someone ask me take their animals
because they were in a bad situation at that moment and needed
someone to care for the animals "for a while". Even after
agreeing that they would give me a set dollar amount (and a very low
cost at that) to pay for feed costs, I had seen nothing. The animals
were here for months and I contacted the owners, stating that if they
couldn't pay for the feed I had into them or at least come get the
animals at that point, or find other accommodations for them, I
needed to sell the animals. It was agreed that I would sell them and
keep the money I got from the sale as payment for feed and care over
the months that I had the animals.
Fast
forward to a week ago.... I got a Facebook message from the father of
the person I had dealt with before. The message stated that some of
the chickens I acquired in December were his.
WHAT??
He
wanted to know what the plan was before he had a bill that he
couldn't pay. Again, WHAT?? Why do you think any of these chickens
are your's?
He
said that 14 of the chickens I got (in December) were "on lone"
to the guy I got them from and he was supposed to get them back in
the spring. And from what I'm getting, he thinks I need to return his
chickens or replace them with pullets in the spring.
Really?
I have fed, watered, and housed these things for over two months and
I did not know anything about your involvement, until now. So let me
ask you, if you had gotten animals from someone and two months later
another person shows up stating that those animals belong to them.
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL??? In my mind I've paid for them. If nothing else
because I have money into their feed and care.... not once in those
two months have I seen any help from anyone else. No money, no feed,
nothing. And that doesn't even include the time and money that the
guy who I got them from had into them. How long can you expect
someone to take care of "your" animals with no help and you
still consider those animals yours to do with what you want?
And
may I add that its always the nastiest coldest part of the year when
there is no natural food for these animals, and feed costs are at
their highest, when people think they can "lone" their
animals out. Do you think I like freezing my hands, face, and feet,
etc. to take care of animals that aren't even producing anything for
me at the moment... NO... I don't .... but I also know it is part of
owning animals. You have to weather the bad days as well as the good
days. Why should I be expected to put in the hardest part of the work
so someone else can come claim them for the summer, when it takes a
lot less feed and labor to keep an animal. In the summer there is
tons of food growing in nature and the chickens could pretty much
fend for themselves and do quite well. Furthermore when I got these
chickens I knew nothing about the deal you had with the other guy, so
if you feel you are owed chickens - then take that up with him, not
me.
I'd
like to offer him a solution to his (and his son's) problem of
acquiring animals they can not take care of for the winter. How about
come fall put those animals in your freezer and let them feed you for
the winter.
If
I'm being a cold hearted wench then be that as it may, I don't feel I
owe him anything.